Sorry this is so long. Getting a diagnosis like that is really hard at such a young age. When I was first diagnosed, I was scared for a long time, because I wasn’t sure what it meant or how serious it was. It get easier to deal with over time, once you learn how the illness will affect you, and once you accept it. It seems scary at first, but the important thing is to try to move on with your life. The illness may be another roadblock in our lives, but everyone has SOME kind of obstacle, don’t they? We have to learn to work around it. I’ve been living with this for 2 years, I just graduated top of my class, and I’ll be going to college on a full scholarship – anything is possible. Life goes on, even in the face of adversity. This diagnosis doesn’t mean her world is ending, even though it feels that way at first. Even with this illness, your daughter’s future is ahead of her, even if it’s harder for her at times.
With autoimmune disorders, it seems that every person reacts differently to the illnesses and medications. My platelets haven’t really been able to stay up for more than a month, so I have to be more careful than usual. I try to avoid contact sports and stuff. I have to get my blood checked often – for a while it was twice weekly, then it went to weekly. I’m doing pretty well right now, so I only have to get it checked once a month, unless I start feeling weird and think I may be anemic or get petechiae (if she hasn’t experienced these yet, this is a rash-like thing you get when your platelets are low). The important thing with Evans Syndrome is to be cautious. It’s better safe than sorry. You should get her blood checked often, because especially with platelets, you don’t always realize how low they are until it becomes critical. Be mindful of bruising, a fast heartbeat, dizziness, or lightheadedness, because these can indicate anemia. Always get it checked out.
For me, the medication has worked wonders. It’s kept me from getting in a super critical condition for a long time now. I’m on a lot of immunosuppressants, though. Your daughter probably will be, too, at some point. The amount will depend on how her counts her at the time. You have to be careful with these, because it is SO easy to get sick. I have to go on home-bound a lot, wear masks in public when it gets bad, can’t go in crowds, etc. I’ll be perfectly honest – if your daughter takes these, she will be sick a LOT. I’m sick more often than I am well, but I’ve learned to deal with it. I’d rather have a stuffy nose than be dead. Just remember to carry hand sanitizer, wash your hands, and be careful to avoid sick people. Overall, though, the only real complaint I have is that I’m constantly tired, which I think is a side effect of the cellcept I am taking.
It really will just take time to see how these illnesses will affect your daughter, and which medication will work best, etc. There are a lot of different treatment options. You just have to be patient and be willing to keep trying treatments until you find one that works best without interfering too much with her everyday life. While Evans Syndrome isn’t curable, it’s manageable, and your daughter can live a normal life with it as long as she takes her medicine, watches her symptoms, and gets checked often.