Hi, and welcome.
I am not really in a position to give too much advice on treatments as I am still pretty new to all this (about 15 months). But I so understand what you are going through, when first you are told you have ITP it is all sort of a big panic. I remember when I was first dx there was three doctors in a hospital room talking about this ITP thing I had never heard of telling me that I was in danger of my brain bleeding and a lot of other worst case senerios, ordering a bone marrow biopsy ( first thing you think about is cancer), ordering blood transfusions, platelet transfusions, iron infusions ect enough to make the stablest person worry.
You are then put in the position of what do I do now? This is urgent, we need to get those platelets to a normal level I was told. My doctor the suggested a course of Prednisone (with the warning "you wont feel like yourself when you are on it") are you kidding me? I thought a few side effects I can handle that, I really could have jumped in front of a bus I felt so bad, didn't know if it was the medication or the ITP. Turns out it was the medication.
So I decide to do some research, find all this scary stuff on the net and start to think this is it life is over.
I talked to my Dr, asked alot of questions and he tried to answer them but mostly he said this is a condition that demands respect and there is no way to say if it's here forever or just short term.
I then found this site and have learned so much. At one stage early in the ITP journey I remember I begged my Dr to remove my spleen, I just didn't want to deal with this. He thankfully declined to do this.
What I am trying to say is don't rush into anything and don't make any big decisions about spleen removal(especially if your on prednisone).Listen to the people on here they have lived this for a long time and they give great advice.
I think (please tell me if I am wrong) that we all have this big panic attack at first, sometimes not helped by the medical profession. As time goes on you start to settle down and relax a bit. Make a plan on what you would like to do, treatments that you want to try.
I am now in the next stage, no treatments but counts are dropping and I think maybe even now after all these months there is still that little bit of panic there at each blood test.
Take your time on this journey, give treatments time to work. It took 10 months of Pred mostly doses above 40 mg to get me to a 130 (been higher since that due to surgery).
I am so glad now that the Doctor refused spleen removal for me. Good luck and I look forward to hearing how you are going.
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