Hi everyone,
This is going to be a long story, bear with me....

I've been on these forums (at least the old ones) a few times in the past, mostly just as a reader, but occasional poster. Now something new has come up and I'm trying to decide how to handle it, how urgent it is, etc. I think maybe I just need to get it all out of my head!!
I was diagnosed with ITP in about 2004. It hadn't been very severe - I don't get CBCs very often and just watch my bruising. It got much better until I had another child a couple years ago and it started getting worse. Then I read here about Vitamin C and have been taking that over the last year and things have gotten much better. I still have occasional bruising but it's not very bad, so I don't think my blood counts are too bad.
Well, a few weeks ago I was tested for thyroid problems. It turns out I have an enlarged thyroid and a cluster of nodules, benign - they did an ultrasound and a biopsy. During the ultrasound they found I have two slightly enlarged parathyroid glands as well.
Later tests came back with normal...TSH? - the main one...but an elevated thyroid peroxidase count (I didn't get exactly what it was). The dr. has recommended I just come back in 6 months to do another scan of the thyroid and see where it is then.
Then, a couple weeks ago, my mom came to visit. She noticed that my face was a little red. She mentioned she thought I had rosacea because she'd had it in the past, but then she made an offhand comment that the red on the face is either rosacea, or lupus, from what her dr. said, but then added she was sure I didn't have lupus. :huh:
Well, not really knowing about lupus, but not being able to get her words out of my head, I went on the web and started looking into what it is. I don't have all the symptoms, but I do have soreness in my hands and sometimes my elbows (especially when I wake up) and right now one of my feet that I have been trying to ignore. I also get stomach aches on occasion - more frequently earlier in the year, a couple times a week, but then I did some fasting to try to cleanse myself and those have gotten better, I rarely get them anymore.
I used to be so tired all the time but I finally forced myself to start exercising in the mornings and that's made a huge difference, now I actually feel like I can do things in the evening. I thought I was just being lazy.... I can't really pinpoint any times where I might have had a flare-up.
The redness on my face comes and goes - I work at home so there are some days where I don't go outside at all. But now I'm watching - and Thurs I was outside for maybe 45 minutes, and that night I was fine but the next morning my nose was pink for a few hours. This all made me remember back to a month or so ago when my son asked me if I was sunburned. I knew I hadn't been outside long enough to be burnt, but I didn't think anything of it.
So, that brings me to where I'm at now. I pretty much just have two questions:
1. Could I really have lupus? Or are there enough illesses out there that it could be other systemic auto-immune problems? How urgent is this? (I don't have pain when I breathe in, so I think that means if I do it isn't affecting my heart/lungs, or could it still be?) I know whatever it is I do need to get it checked out further, but do I need to go in like Monday, or should I just wait for the next thyroid ultrasound?
2. Should I go straight to a rheumatologist, or should I try the family doctor first? Are they going to know enough to run the tests or are they just going to send me to a rheumatologist anyway? I've been to 4 different docs about the thyroid thing in the last month and I'm not so excited about being shuffled around to a couple other drs before they figure out what's going on. I don't officially have a family doc that I've been to but my husband has been to one. I usually just go to my ob. I have a hematologist that I haven't been to for a while for the ITP.
I think I really just needed to get all of this off my chest. I've talked to my husband about all of this, he of course wants me to go in yesterday and I know I should soon but I just wanted to get some thoughts about doctors and such....
Thank you all ahead of time for your help!
Janell