In my ITP teen, I used to think I could tell when her counts were low, because she got petechiae, but she sometimes gets them even at normal counts. Lots of folks on here get petechiae with normal counts, so I don't think that's a reliable indicator. If my kid gets dark, cobalt blue or black bruises, without a known cause, and if the bruise doesn't hurt, this usually means the count has dropped. (I wouldn't go pressing on bruises with an 18 month old who doesn't understand what you're doing, however. It sounds sick for any of us to press on our kids' bruises, but the older kids know why you're doing it, and many of the adult patients here agree that ITP bruises seem not to hurt, and normal bruises do. I'm guessing it's because normal bruises actually have a traumatic origin.)
Norma