I'm curious what other pieces of "advice" or "observations" other parents have learned from trial and error that would be worthy of sharing with others?
Our story: 3yr old diagnosed 6 months ago with ITP with original counts of 4k. After 4 days in hospital (to my surprise, very little other testing was done on her), she had one petechiae and significant bruising, purpura in mouth and respiratory illness. IVIG raised levels to 400! After IVIG, she complained of chest pain, bubbles in chest, leg pain, was extremely irritable and more needy than normal. And, of course, regressed in areas such as sleeping in her own bed, and potty training. Four weeks later, bruising returned. The last 6 mos have been that yoyo we all know. Two weeks ago she had nosebleeds and it took us several days to get labs done with a 2nd opinion childrens hosp we were working with, and eventually were sent to a walkin clinic. by then symptoms faded and her labs were 100ish. One week later, she was scheudled for yearly exam and received nasal mist style flu vaccine (and pediatrician said she could receive despite ivig)...Three days later, mucousy nosebleeds, lots of petechia, extreme irritability, bruising, etc. Her platelets dropped to 9k, and she was administered IVIG#2. Now, once again complaining of foot pain, bubbles in chest, groin lymph node pain (and it's pink there), irritability, hair hurting, etc. (Am I the only one who is frustrated by knowing so very little about the product being administered to her?)
Here are a few of my questions--if any of you have answers:
1) IVIG - Interested on FDA feedback, long term effects, any recalls, alternatives to IVIG that work as well?
2) Who are the most well renowned drs in the field of ITP?
3) Best tests to rule out other conditions, and why doesn't anyone want to do anything more?
4) What does it mean to have a platelet antibody?
5) What natural dietary or homeopathic changes has anyone tried and found beneficial? (on that note, I have noticed my daughter's platelets raise after Reiki energy healing treatments.)
6) Daughter LOVES yogurt...any found correlation between that bacteria?
7) Flu vaccine safe or unsafe for ITP. Safe or unsafe for recipients of IVIG?

Any knowledge whether stem cell blood can be used for treatment of ITP?
9) What medications do ITP people need to avoid?
10) If this goes chronic, I'm interested to know parameters other parents may have given their little ones re: sports, life evetns, etc. and whether kids developed phobias of hospitals, and advice on how to minimize that?
11) How do caregivers survive...by that I mean literally? I started a new job when this diagnosis occurred, and while I'm a very tenured professional, one can only miss so much time from work. Hubby is disabled due to chronic migraines adn spinal issues so I'm often doing this alone...ARE there any organizations out there to help parents in this situation? And what about if I do indeed lose my job? Trying to hold it all together by a mere thread it feels at times.
Thx for the responses and input.
I've tried researching the pages, but asy ou all know, when we are in the point that we are in, time is limited.