Remember Me     Forgot Login?   Sign up   •  Web site Help & Info

!!! DISCUSSION GROUP RULES !!!

1. You must be a registered website user in order to post and comment. Guests may read only.
2. Be kind and helpful, not rude and cynical.
3. Don't advertise or promote anything. You will be banned from the group.
4. Report problems to the moderators. THANK YOU!

My Rheumatologist did it again!

  • Sandi
  • Topic Author
  • Offline
  • Sandi Forum Moderator Diagnosed in 1998, currently in remission. Diagnosed with Lupus in 2006. Last Count - 344k - 6-9-18
More
7 years 6 months ago #62880 by Sandi
My Rheumatologist did it again! was created by Sandi
She started tapering me from 15 mg's about four months ago, and was dropping me by 2.5 every other month. I did it and got down to 10 mg's. I called for a refill the other day and she dropped me 2.5 mg's again. This time I wrote her an e-mail and told her that I was in the middle of packing my house for a move on March 31st, and also packing up my mom's house since she passed away in January. I'm doing most of it on my own and cannot possibly tolerate that much of a drop right now. She had her cranky nurse write me back and she agreed to stay at 10 mg's for another month, then drop by 1 mg every month until I get to 5 mg's. I've been on this for 13 years! Cranky also stated in the e-mail that I have not been compliant with my tapering. THAT made me mad because when she calls in a script, I have no choice BUT to comply since there are only so many pills in the bottle. She has to take stress into consideration here, but doesn't want to hear it. Obviously they don't understand the danger of tapering too fast. I guess I'm going to go Rheumatologist hunting again.
More
7 years 6 months ago #62881 by momto3boys
Replied by momto3boys on topic My Rheumatologist did it again!
Ugh Sandi, I'm sorry to hear about the problems with your doctor. Of course she decides to drop things radically when you most need your adrenal glands to be as happy as they can be!

I hope you find someone who can help you have a more gentle taper. Doctor shopping (for specialists in particular) is the WORST. You wait forever for a new patient appointment, and then you may not like the doctor after waiting months to get in. I hate it!

Hang in there and good luck with all of the moving. I hope you can get lots of help!
  • mrsb04
  • Offline
  • ITP since 2014. Retired nurse. My belief is empower patients to be involved as much as possible in their care. Read, read, read & ALWAYS question medics about the evidence base they use.
More
7 years 6 months ago #62882 by mrsb04
Replied by mrsb04 on topic My Rheumatologist did it again!
I would love to know how many of these medics have actually taken Pred themselves. Maybe if they had they would understand tapering and how difficult it can be. As for the none compliance aspect I'd be straight back there demanding an apology that is SO unprofessional.
  • Sandi
  • Topic Author
  • Offline
  • Sandi Forum Moderator Diagnosed in 1998, currently in remission. Diagnosed with Lupus in 2006. Last Count - 344k - 6-9-18
More
7 years 6 months ago #62883 by Sandi
Replied by Sandi on topic My Rheumatologist did it again!
They really get nasty there. They prescribed Norco for me for years, four per day. One Friday, I was out of pills and had called in the script days earlier. They made me physically pick up the scripts all the time so I went in thinking it would be there. Nope, the doctor left with it laying in her in-box and would not be back until after the weekend. They expected me to go the weekend without the pills. I was livid. Cranky nurse just shrugged and said, "I don't know what you want me to do". I said, "Stop dropping the ball with patients"! This was a drug with serious withdrawal. I've since changed that script to a pain management office.

I don't just have normal withdrawal when I taper. Because of Lupus, the pain is ten-fold. Even with 10 mg's of Prednisone, I have problems doing daily things. When I run errands and get to the parking lot, I sometimes sit in the car for 10 minutes because getting out and walking is painful, especially in the winter. I can take pain, but every single day for 13 years really wears you out. I still keep going but at a slower pace.

They are unprofessional, MrsB. I e-mailed Cranky back and thanked her for letting me know, then said that the taper was better but not as slow as it should be. I then said, 'surely someone in that office knows how dangerous a fast taper can be". What is wrong with these people? Her goal is to get me down to 5 mg's. After this many years, it's not gonna happen.
More
7 years 6 months ago #62885 by TerriC14
Replied by TerriC14 on topic My Rheumatologist did it again!
I am sorry you have to deal with this but this office does not seem like a good fit. It is one thing if they do not medically support what treatment plan you want (I have been involved in that scenario on a professional level) but there is not reason to be nasty or suggest you are non compliant. And if their error caused you to do without medication it is their responsibility to correct it.

Good luck with everything. The stress of moving one house, much less two is a lot to deal with even without any medical issues.
  • dru
  • Offline
  • I developed hemolytic anemia in 1999 and ITP in 2005. Treatments have been splenectomy, prednisone, IVIG, and Rituxan.
More
7 years 6 months ago #62902 by dru
Replied by dru on topic My Rheumatologist did it again!
Wow,this is just awful. Those of us who have been on many tapers know how bad it is. The doctors and nurses should have a more professional attitude and also empathy for the stress of moving as well as trying to cope with daily demands when someone has lupus or any autoimmune disorder.
  • Sandi
  • Topic Author
  • Offline
  • Sandi Forum Moderator Diagnosed in 1998, currently in remission. Diagnosed with Lupus in 2006. Last Count - 344k - 6-9-18
More
7 years 6 months ago #62903 by Sandi
Replied by Sandi on topic My Rheumatologist did it again!
I guess they think I don't have anything to do except sit around. I've been waiting for that chance for years. Way too many stressful things going on.