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itp and work..again

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15 years 2 months ago #6958 by redchilli
itp and work..again was created by redchilli
anyone here lose their job or have to stop work because of their itp? also, how do u juggle work, kids etc while having treatments? ivig gives me extremely bad headaches but i need to get it sometimes. i am scared it will affect my new job because these headaches are constant for a week or 2 after the infusion.
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15 years 2 months ago #6959 by CindyL
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Chilli, you'll find that everyone has a different opinion on this. I was told to stop working the year I was diagnosed, so I did. I was out for 4 years. I went back to work in /08, but stopped again last Christmas. No kids to juggle, but I was suddenly needing treatment more often, and it would knock me out for a couple of days after, so I need to get that under control before trying again. I applied and got long term disability.

Good luck.
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15 years 2 months ago #6961 by Sandi
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Well, the treatments did affect my job in that I did not perform nearly as well as I should have, especially while on Prednisone. The only days I missed though were the days I got Rituxan treatments (5 days). I've never had IVIG because it seems so temporary and I didn't want to miss that much work.

As for the kids, mine were 9, 13 and 15. Those were tough ages because they had so many activities to go to after I was done working, so we ran constantly (husband travels for his job).

It was a juggling act for sure, and I don't know how I hung onto my job without getting fired (made mistakes). I just took things one day at a time.
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15 years 2 months ago #6985 by menicki
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I'm having the same problem right now. I have three kids (5 years, 4 years, and 4 months). I've been getting written up at work lately quite a bit. I've NEVER gotten written up before! I've been trying my hardest to keep up with everything, but I feel like I'm not succeeding.

My husband and I are trying to figure out a way I can just stay home with the kids, but we haven't been able to figure out how to pay the bills (my oldest son is autistic, so he has quite a few medical bills too!).

I hate to say it this way, but I've gotten to the point where I'm concentrating on my health and my family. I go to work every day that I can, and I give it my best try, but at this point if they fire me I think it might actually be a blessing.

Right now I just keep pushing through each day, and trying new treatments, and hopefully one of them will end up working and I can go into remission and find some order in my life again!

Nicki
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15 years 2 months ago #7018 by aurehsalla
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I'm in full time work in central London, but going by what other people have said, my ITP seems to be less severe than some. I've been off the steroids for over a year and my count has been anything between 36 and 112 in that time. When i get ill with a cold or something, it does usually knock me out completely for 2 days, but thankfully my work are very understanding, and let me go for hospital appointments every 2-3 months without trouble. Sometimes I have more energy, sometimes less, but I've as yet not been put on IVIG or anything else besides pred. Hopefully I never will, but I bet you all said that before, so in no way am I going to be complacent about such things - there's a first time for everything. I'm just trying to balance work, life and taking good care of myself as best I can.