Please let your Dad know ITP is not the end of the world - I've had it since 1989, I'm now older than your Dad. We moved to Tokyo very shortly after I was diagnosed with a count of 11,000 & dropping, and then to Hong Kong before returning to the States. Only thing I've quit doing was skiing, and that was because I liked my bones the way God had made them not because of ITP. It is a shock at first as mrsb said - heck all of a sudden one gets smacked with something they have never heard of before and now needs to deal with it. If your Dad is showing signs of depression will his insurance cover counseling - or can he freely talk with his hematologist about it?
You are a wonderful daughter to find us - my son found this group many years ago for me. You keep coming but also let your Dad know we are here and we are going through this too!!
Keep us posted!
"Instead of wasting your time worrying about symptoms, just get it checked out" -Nieca Goldberg, MD