Bernice glad you posted! There are a lot of supportive people here who have years of experience with the treatments. You are not alone. If you are not ready for splenectomy or like you said, are exposed to too many germs, I would suggest you try Nplate or Promacta. They are drugs that were designed for ITP. They work very well for most people and don't have the terrible side effects of prednisone. I am on Nplate which is a weekly injection that I get in the doctor's office. Its really easy for me and no side effects! I love that. Promacta is a pill that you take once a day- people have had good results with both drugs.
8 months is a long time to be on prednisone, no wonder you are tired of it! It made me crazy, irritable, bloated, sleep apnea, gained 30 pounds- and later found out that it caused bone thinning. It can cause all kinds of mood changes. I had some depression when tapering off as a withdrawal symptom. When you find a replacement drug, remember that your adrenals are dependent on prednisone so you MUST taper slowly. It could be life threatening to go off of it too fast. good luck finding the right treatment!