Hello Katlynnsmom.

Though I'm sorry you have to be here, I'm glad you did find us! Please feel free to voice all your thoughts, fears and questions. That's what we're here for! What a crazy way to find out about ITP and Graves! How's her wrist doing now? Has she done prednisone yet? It works nicely for some. It usually is the first attempt to get numbers up. The bone marrow test isn't necessary for ITP, it's more of a rule out other things kind of test. You have every right to refuse it. It's all up to you and Katlynn. It is common to look at anyone with ITP and say that! ITP doesn't have any dibilatating symptoms. It isn't common for ITP and Graves, but once you have one auto-immune disorder it is "easier" for you to get another.
I'm sorry she had to miss so much at such a young age, but I believe it will get easier for her, and you, as you both learn more about it all.