Hey I totally understand how you feel. My 11 yr old was dx 2/28/11. She was admitted to the hospital for 3 nights and received ivig. Since then she's had another round of ivig and prednisone. Neither of those have worked (everyone's different though). My daughter gained about 10 lbs, got the "moon face" and her face broke out. She has been off of them for a few weeks and the swelling and other side effects are still slowly going away.
The first round of ivig she had the same symptoms minus the fever. On the second round (a couple weeks later) she did better and just had a mild headache.
Initially when they said she had ITP her count was 2,000. The highest we've had it up to 142,000. Today her labs came back and she is at 0...yes I said 0. Her numbers jump around like crazy. The docs are trying to give her till August which is when she hits the 6 month mark (the hope that it cures itself within 6 months like it does in "most" children) before we try another type of treatment since the side effects are more concerning with other meds. The docs in the childrens hemo/cancer clinic are discussing my daughter tomorrow at their weekly meeting to see if they still want to hold out a bit longer before we try anything else.
Yes this is EXTREMELY frustrating and it will continue to be but we can't keep them in a bubble. My daughter is so pi**ed that she can't do sports right now and we've but I just try to find other things to keep her busy...it doesn't always work.
I still get frustrated and I've read TONS of stuff about this disorder. So, I'm here to vent to