Pauline:
Staying out of the sun is the hardest part for me. I was a sun lover, always have been. We also have a pool and go to the beach every year. I don't stop doing those things, but I do take precautions. I use a high SPF sunscreen with both UVA and UVB, and I limit my time. I also wear a hat on the beach when the sun is highest. I've heard stories of people who went for years with no problems in the sun and suddenly they end up with all sorts of problems.
I do push my limits though, I know. My Rheumatologist suggested that I sit under a beach umbrella at all times...I don't do it. However, I have not had any rashes yet nor have I seemed to have any problems with excess antibody production due to the sun. My blood work has remained the same every three months when I am tested. I do have an increase in neuropathy when I'm in the sun...my arms and legs feel like they are being pelted with sleet the whole week I'm on vacation. When we leave, that goes away. The thing is, Lupus symptoms can change at any time and get worse, so I know I'm taking a risk by doing it at all. I've been okay for five years so far, I just hope it continues.
I don't know that there is such a comfort as a mild form of Lupus. Things can change quickly. A person might live their whole life with few problems, but you won't know that until you get to the end of your life. Until then, Lupus is Lupus and symptoms can come and go. I think I've been pretty lucky with it so far, no organ involvement, but I do live with constant pain and fatigue. I have mild nerve damage due to neuropathy which also comes and goes. It acts up in the cold months and the week I'm on the beach. Annoying, but nothing compared to what some people go through.
Well, I didn't want to talk about me. I just wanted to let you know some of my story to give you an idea of what can happen. Talk to her doctor about precautions and see what she says.