These are some heavy legal issues that are being discussed. Try as I might, I couldn't let this go without comment.
Yes, parents have the right and responsibility to raise their children. But the reason those laws exist in the first place is because there are too many children who need protected from their parents. I'm not saying anyone here is one of them, but Child Protective Services is a good thing. Heck, even animals are protected by the law (and rightly so).
I heard on the news this morning that a toddler died of malnutrition and dehydration. The mother said she knew the child needed medical attention, but she chose to go to a friends house and smoke crack. The people in the community are horrified that this was 'allowed' to occur because the mother had been reported before. Why didn't anyone step in?
You might say that this is a completely different situation, and it is. But what if the mother had stayed and given the child water and food, but the child died anyway because it was too late? That mother still denied her child the right to medical attention which could have saved his life. She chose to handle it on her own. In either case, it is sheer negligence. Should she not be charged because it is her God given right to raise her child?
My problem with this is, where do you draw the line? Just because you believe you are doing the right thing does not make it so. Luckily, the situations discussed here on the PDSA have all had good endings. What if they hadn't? I could never live with the fact that I made a decision that denied my child medical care and they died because of it.
My daughter once had appendicitis. It came on quickly and she had to have emergency surgery. Had she not, she would have died. I COULD have chosen to give her carrot juice as a cure instead, as this article implies:
www.natural-homeremedies.org/blog/home-cures-for-appendicitis/
All I can say is, I hope you know what you're doing. I hope you never have to live with bad consequences from a well-intended decision. I'm sorry I don't see things your way, but I do believe that the courts have the right to step in and take action when it is clear that a child is being abused, neglected, or mistreated. It's a very fine line we walk as parents and it's a tough road the entire way. Unfortunately, there are good parents who screw up because they are distracted, misinformed or misguided. Because of that, children do need protected.